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Brain Fog

Definition:

You struggle to think clearly, focus, or remember things, and your mind feels slow or “cloudy.”

What to Do:

1.) You need to practice finding and staying within your window of tolerance.

2.) You need to pay attention to your thoughts and challenge the ones that aren’t helping you.

3.) You need to practice planning, organizing, and following through on what you need to do.

4.) You need to take care of your body: sleep well, eat properly, and stay hydrated.

Why:

Abuse puts you into survival mode.

It’s your body’s way of protecting you from a threat.

Survival mode is only meant for short-term dangers — like escaping a fire.

When you spend a long time in this state, it starts working against you.

Your nervous system can’t tell the difference between a narcissist tearing you down and your boss giving you feedback.

In its mind, danger is danger.

So your body keeps you on high alert and your brain is forced to deprioritize thinking.

In other words, your body tells your brain:

“Don’t think — just survive.”

And until your nervous system starts coming out of survival mode, your mind can stay foggy, scattered, and exhausted.

Important: It’s a good idea to also look through the examples in the “How to Do It” section to see what this approach looks like in real life.

A cognitive distortion is an inaccurate thinking pattern that makes situations feel more dangerous, hopeless, or personal than they really are.

For example:

  • “They sound upset — they’re going to leave me.”
  • “They’re being quiet today — something bad is about to happen.”
  • “I made a mistake at work — I’m going to get fired.”

These distortions are a problem because they can pull you back into survival mode.

Think of it like this:

You’re at work and someone’s phone alarm goes off.

You mistake it for a fire alarm and sprint for the door.

Cognitive distortions work the same way.

They make normal situations feel like emergencies.

And that can pull you back into survival mode and make brain fog worse.

Important: It’s a good idea to also look through the examples in the “How to Do It” section to see what this approach looks like in real life.

These are cognitive skills that enable you to plan, organize, and manage your thoughts and actions.

They’re essentially your brain’s control center, helping with tasks like focusing, remembering information, making decisions, and regulating impulses.

They’re important because even after you’ve reduced your cognitive distortions, life will still throw triggers at you, things like:

  • getting a text from an unknown number
  • making a small mistake at work
  • hearing someone raise their voice

And without strong executive function, those moments can trigger your cognitive distortions and drag you back into survival mode.

So, rebuilding and maintaining these functions gives you the mental capacity you need to work through these triggers.

Important: It’s a good idea to also look through the examples in the “How to Do It” section to see what this approach looks like in real life.

Your brain fog is not going to disappear overnight.

So it’s important to use healthy coping strategies when it comes up.

That way you can move through it instead of getting stuck or falling back into survival mode.

Important: It’s a good idea to also look through the examples in the “How to Do It” section to see what this approach looks like in real life.

How to Do It:

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